Breakaway from hero complex: Stop rescuing your partner, and rescue yourself instead. “Most relationships fail not because of the absence of love. Love is always present. It’s just that one loves too much and the other loves too little”. – The Love Bits Many of my clients complain about how they are treated in a […]
Leadership in relationships: 3 easy steps! A “self-leader” is the positively influence you have on yourself and on others without any influence with your titles and positions. You must be able to lead yourself before you can lead others. ― Israelmore Ayivor Two people that self-lead can have a sustainable relationship because they can create an ideal overlap and balance between what […]
The mirroring principle has answers to your relationship challenges. “Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life, and you will call it fate.” C.G. Jung Have you found that no matter how close you want to be in your relationship, your partner prevents it by being “condescending,” “critical,” “irresponsible,” “distant,” or “rejecting? “You […]
3 ways to invest your emotions when dealing with a break-up. Dealing with a break-up is one of the challenging things a lot of people face at some point in their life. A few years ago I went through a relationship break-up myself, which I now can look back and see it was one of the […]
3 ways to develop a winning mindset for relationships. When we were children, our developing brains were vulnerable; we didn’t have the cognitive skills and the capacity to critically evaluate the information presented to us by others. Before the age of 13, most of our mental processes were unconscious as our conscious mind had not […]
Are you feeling secure in your relationship? 3 key steps to cultivate a secure attachment style in your relationship. In today’s article, we will focus on the attachment theory to understand why people may experience relationship challenges and I will then offer some strategies on how to manage these problems and even improve your relationship. Attachment theory […]